Two of the most important factors or determinant of a persons life is what we are about to discuss in this post.
To everyone is their own peculiarity that makes them different from others. We have all got our differences and these includes our strength and weaknesses.
In every phase of life, our strength and weaknesses are displayed and revealed.
In Academics - We tend to discover the subject we are good at and the ones that gives us tough time.
In Relationships - We tend to see where we aren't strong or able to maintain balance.
In Business - We see how far we can go, the kind of businesses that works for us and how much we can risk.
These are just to mention in few some of the aspects of life where strength and weaknesses are displayed.
» In decision making it is displayed
» On physical or energy level it is displayed
» Emotionally it is displayed
» Between peer groups it is displayed
So no one can claim to have been existing without weaknesses and that is why nobody has the right to intimidate you because of your weaknesses.
They complain you aren't good at this, yes but let them know they have got theirs too,
They complain you are not brave with things, yes but let them know it is just your weakness and they have got theirs.
Overcoming your weakness in life requires you to gather your inner strength, it needs you to know that it is a general phenomenon and not that you are the only disadvantaged person.
One of the crucial factors that kills the mind is when a picture is painted within you that a particular problem is unique to you, like you are the first to experience it.
But when you discover and admit that it is general, your strive becomes how to overcome it and stand out among many.
In few lines below, I will discuss briefly on how to build your weakness into strength and stand out among many.
So Below Are Guides For To Follow If You Want To Develop Your Weakness Into Strength
1. Accept Your Weakness :
One of the greatest step to solving issues like this is to first of all accept that you have got a weakness.
Accept those things you aren't good at, identify them and admit they are challenges to you. Until this time, you might not see them worthy of fighting or overcoming.
When you are done with this, you can now proceed to the next phase.
2. Spell Out The Harms They Carry :
Having spelt out your weakness, the next thing is for you to identify or list out the possible harms it is capable of causing to you.
You will definitely know that if one of your weakness is resisting ladies as a guy, your chances of going far in life or sustaining a good marriage is under maybe.
You will also accept that if your weakness is fear, you will find it difficult to speak at important places, display your strength and gain ground.
If you also have weakness in English as a subject, you will know it is compulsory course and has a chance of affecting you latter on.
So stating the harms this weakness can cause will reveal an urgent need for you to get rid of them.
3. Desire a Change and Be Determined :
Next to this is to desire a change, you have discovered what your weaknesses are and you have known, so the next thing is for you to disagree with its continuity.
Resolve to resisting it, desire a change in your personality and strive to turn that weakness into strength.
» If it is fear - desire boldness
» If it is poor mental ability - desire a good one
» If it is emotional weakeness - desire a strong one etc.
Say it that you mean it and be determined.
4. Implement The Change :
After doing all these things, strive to begin implementation. Work on yourself, come out of your shell and do things contrary to your weakness.
Put yourself to the test and try fighting it. Seek people who has passed through thnat phase of life and let them guide you, you might not see them in person but you can ask questions on google.
Fight your weakness with all focus and aim having in mind what you stand to gain at the end.
5. Be Consistent :
Know that your consistency matters, don't be tired even though the state of things will suggest it to you.
Sometimes it will seem like you are getting hard on yourself but yes, that is what you need.
Continue moving and don't feel relaxed, pray along side and you will get results.
Turning your weakness into strength might not be easy but will be when you are determined and ready for uplifting.
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